It's certainly not a perfect situation but we just have to keep reminding ourselves and each other how much better this alternative is over what it was. I like to bury my head in the sand and pretend that things are better than they are which I did all the time when they were home alone. Can you imagine the nightmares we would have all had if we had actually seen or known all that went on! I shutter to think!!! At least this way we can see them and leave knowing that at least someone is with them! Driving away from their house with just Dad there to look after Mom when he could barely watch out for himself was truly a nightmare! They are lucky that they have each other and all of us too, and we're lucky to have them and each other. We will all survive! Love to all, Judy