Thanks guys, you're all so sweet, and I love you all so much. It's really helped me to just step back a little---I think just getting away was good and talking to Bruce was good. Today I drove to KY Lake to meet Ryan and looked at condos with her---that was good. The sunshine's good. I just needed to clear some cobwebs out and I guess it's been long overdue. Anyway, I'm trying to 'chill' more and worry and plan and scheme less------that'll never happen because I have to feel like I have a handle on things------thus the plans and schemes and lining up my ducks all the time. Anyway, I'm planning on going to see Mom and Dad tomorrow at supper. I'm going to get up in the morning and clean house----this helps me, too, unfortunately! LOL! Bruce plays cards on Wed night and usually goes straight from work to Dale's house. I can go at supper and it won't matter because Bruce won't get home until about 10:00 tomorrow night! YIKES! for him! Thanks for all the kind words. Love you all, Jeanie