Jeanie, I know this has all been so hard for you and I hate it! I guess all of us deal differently and some of us let it pile up and some of us try to drop balls as fast as we can. I know you'll figure out your happy medium but I wish there were something/anything I could do! I know I can't though but I'm here if you want to talk! I know you know that too! I'm just so freaking ready for the DHS stuff to be over. I wish to goodness we had just left all the money in, let it run out and then we would have been done with this a while back! Grrrrrr! I'm glad it's Chad's conference/appeal phone call at least. That's a positive! Brittney,Frank and the boys have gone to his Mom's to spend the night and I've been cleaning/picking up my house, running errands and doing laundry. They will leave a week from Sunday and then I'll be up to see Mom and Dad. I miss them! I hope better days are ahead for all! Love, Judy