Pam, Casey will find his way! I think as Mothers we're all so invested in our children to be happy, successful and independent and it's so hard to watch them as they go through all the things in life that eventually get them to that point...but they do get there...some just faster and easier than others. I wish all the best for Casey on this new journey and I hope he finds what he needs out of life in the Army. As I've said before...hard for me to say anything bad about the military..it has served us so well..a Masters Degree for Jerry and awesome experience that has led us to our newest adventure that we're about to take! Jerry will be the first to tell you...all he is he owes to the Army!! Extra prayers coming your way! Jeanie, my poor Annie...extra prayers coming your way too! I think I'm going to turn to drinking or major junk eating personally...we got some preliminary news about the appraisal and it's not good...official report will be tonight or tomorrow. The problem is there's nothing else in Calloway County to compare this house/land/location to so basically they're left to compare apples to oranges. If this falls through, we're back to square one and I guess I'll be making another house hunting trip the first of April...there's just nothing else to really even consider...I looked again this morning after we talked with Gale. I do think we'll keep the land if possible..maybe..right now I just feel like the rug's been pulled out from under us. As I said, drinking may help!!:) It's just a wait and see....everyone keep posting...Love you all, Jamie