Yuck is about all I got! I like/want to believe that Dad doesn't really think of "home" as that place where he and Mom lived. Maybe he thought he was at the casino or somewhere like he's done a million times and wanted someone to come get him. He did that when he was at home on Poplar and maybe it's a continued thing like that. He KNOWS he can't go home alone and he wouldn't without Mom anyway! With Mom there, that is home. I hate that for you Pat and know how horrible it would be! Pam has said he's asked her about leaving and going home but thankfully he's never really talked about that much with me. I'm so sorry! I too am saddened and sick about it all! I feel in my heart though that we did/are making the right decision for Mom/Dad. You all know it's true!!! We all do! I'm sorry it's like this but it just is! Love to all, Judy