Ok girls here is our update via Jody:  She went there at supper time and Mom was almost finished eating but what was left looked pureed and probably was the hamburger.  Dad wasn't in the dining room and his plate was there but he had eaten hardly any of it. She asked the lady where he was and she pointed that he went that way! Jody found him down the hall playing with the blinds.  The nurse said he'd been agitated all day.  This of course puts to rest the note Nikki said! Liar!!! The other help was running around with the fire extinguisher because the alarm was going off! She said that they had trouble with it last year when it got so hot outside.  They didn't think it was a fire but they had to be sure.Jody said the alarms were SO loud!  Guess that's good though.   Mom had on a bib so she wasn/t sure about her top but evidently she had on the pants that matches the blue sweatshirt with flowers that I had gotten her.  Jody will go back tomorrow and Pam is hoping to go on Friday at suppertime.  Jim leaves for Guatemala tomorrow and Cary is coming to keep Pam company for the weekend so she said that she should be able to go Saturday too.  She thinks Jody works Sun, Mon and Tues and hopefully she'll check on them those days too.  I just don't understand Dad's agitation unless he really does have a UTI and/or his Potassium level is messed up.  I don't like he didn't eat much tonight either! Ugggggg!! Love to all, Judy