I just called again to check on Mom and Dad because Jody got tied up with things in Jonesboro and forgot about going by.  Donna said that she was about to call "one of us" to let us know that Mr. Lane(sp??) and Dad had an altercation.  She said it was after supper when they were putting people to bed and Mr. Lane and Dad "got together" in the big common room.  She said that the report said that one was pushing the other's wheelchair and then he hit him and he was hit back" She said it doesn't say who hit who first but I told her that I KNEW Mr. Lane had hit Dad because Dad wouldn't hit anyone first and that we KNEW and had told THEM that Mr. Lane had to stay away from Dad! Nikki knows Mr. Lane doesn't like Dad and knew that it was a potential problem and my question is WHY did they let it happen if they knew Mr. Lane was aggressive!!  It just literally makes me sick to think of someone hitting Dad.  It's hard enough for us to have to have them there and then to think we put them there for safety and now maybe he's not safe.  Dad couldn't defend himself against anyone because he's too frail!  Donna said that he wasn't hurt and that they were all in bed.  I told her that Michael Smith had said there would be NO hitting and that he had to send his own Mom for behavior modification and it's time for Mr. Lane to go there!  Jody works tomorrow and Pam said she'd get her to go by and check on them.  Ideas? Suggestions? We're getting into a crisis here I think! Love to all, Judy