Here are my plans as of today...tomorrow, they may be different!! I think Jerome really wants to go with Jerry in March and then stay...maybe try and get a job until school starts in the Fall. He can also supervise any work that I can get ordered as well as do some "jobs" around the house...ie paint, work on the barn, rock around the pond, etc. Jerry will drive the suburban loaded with stuff and pull the jeep also loaded with stuff (mostly Jerome's camping, outdoor equipment) while I drive a u haul loaded with stuff (clocks,3 or 4 cabinets, couch, as much as I can cram in it)...we'll be a parade going cross country...this plan will be a strong possibility only after we talk with transportation this week and find out if we can get "paid" to do this. I'll stay for a couple of weeks maybe...get estimates on enclosing the patio, get rocks ordered, get other estimates on jobs, utilities switched over,etc and then I'll fly back and continue to work on stuff here. With Jerome on the ground, then I really won't need to fly back out there, I could coordinate stuff by phone and with Jerome. Anyway, sounds good on paper, but we'll see. This way, once I get back from this initial trip, then I can really concentrate on stuff here and Jason's graduation and getting really ready to move. March 25th is rapidly approaching and I still feel like I'm just blowing in the wind...ok, off to do laundry and cook porkchops..Love you, Jamie