Pam I'm so glad Jody likes the nursing home as good as most cause none are great for sure! Every time I'm there though I realize more and more that not even considering Mom, Dad would have to have 24/7 care. He is so confused the majority of the time and has no idea where he is or what is going on. Jamie I called and left you a message today after you didnt answer my call yesterday! Lol I didn't need anything but was going to give you a break from Oma!! Lol I think lawn chairs would definitely push the envelope but she might think it's totally appropriate!! Pam I hope Casey doesn't have to go overseas cause it's so hard on families but if he does you will all be ok and get through it with flying colors! Pat I hope Margaret and Molli continue down this road as easy as it's been this far! I know you are all so excited!! Love to all, Judy