Jeanie always good to see you too!! :) Got home about 6 tonight...I was so tired that I had to stop at WalMart in Union City and go to the bathroom and walk around the store a little to "perk" up.  Didn't help much, but at least when I got back in the car I found a funny call in radio show where they were discussing everything from gays in the military to our local democrats and their latest escapades!!  Kept me entertained til I got home!!  The nursing home came and picked up the piano!! YEA!! I worked on moving a few more things to the sunroom and straightening my half of the garage...I think we might be able to squeeze both vehicles in now!! Double Yea!!    Yes Jeanie and I talked to Darah...I got a little snippy at one point(this happens when I'm tired! sound familiar?)...but we stated our thoughts and suggestions and I agree that she did seem like she was willing to try some things to help Dad.  My guess is that they are just not use to dealing with family members that know too much...we, however, are just the opposite and I'm sure it's a little weird for them!  I like that it's weird for them...gives us the edge and keeps them on their toes!!  I'll post after I talk with Darah hopefully tomorrow...my feeling is that I'd like them to implement some of the changes we discussed today and see if those make a difference before we just jump right into the sleeping meds.  Darah said that the appetite stimulant has alcohol in it which can help "calm the beast"...maybe a full tummy and a little shot will do the trick!! :)  Ok, I'm hitting the sack...I've got a long list of chores to do for tomorrow!!  Love you all,  Jamie