Jerry and I stopped by to see Daddy on our way to Pam's today.  He was sitting in the eating room at a table by himself.  He hadn't gotten his food and it was so sad to see him there alone.  I asked Margaret if he could sit in the other dining room with someone and they moved him to a table with a man I had never seen before but who seemed very nice.  Of course, I cried because it was so sad.  He asked where Mother was and I just didn't say anything.  They said he had asked a few times.  Anyway, we sat with him for a while as he ate.  He was not very alert and I'm not sure he even knew us.  love you, pat