Jeanie and I went to see Mom and Dad today and it wasn't a good visit for us. Mom was partially slumped in her chair and I held her head up while Jeanie fed her. She is just pitiful and it's so sad! There were only a couple of things she said that I understood and one was when I hugged her and asked if she was doing ok and she said "no not really". I wanted to just cry!! One other time I told her that we all loved her and she said "I love you too" but it wasn't totally clear and maybe it was just me wanting to hear that. Dad was in bed and wouldn't get up for lunch. He told Debbie that he wasn't. Going to and obviously he didn't want up because he was flat on his back, no feet, and mouth open wide sleeping up a storm. They put his tray in his room and said they'd try to get him to eat later. Debbie said his vitals and blood sugar was fine today so I guess he was just sleepy from being up and to the ER last night. He never woke up the whole time we were there. The girls all said that mom had been very vocal earlier in the common area so maybe she was just tired. I thought when we first got there that she was breathing awfully hard andyou coukd see her heart beating in her neck and it seemed fast to me too. She did aeem better about that after a while though. It all makes me sick to my stomach!! Anxious to hear how she is on someone's next visit. On a positive note Brittney told me today that Frank's leave was approved and they will be here around 12/23 and stay till after the wedding. Ive never had Christmas with her whole family and am anxious!!
Love to all, Judy