You know, I may have to quit reading on here! We need to rename this the 'depressionshelton6sisters'! YUCK! YUCK to Jamie for her Mother-in-law---sorry Jerry! DOUBLE YUCK for Ona and Randall and family! I HATE all of that for them so badly! What Jerry Calder said is so true---you have to be so watchful because what he could get there could really do him in! YUCK, YUCK, YUCK! I'll just add to it! How's that for more fun!!!!! LOL! Bruce and I went to see Mom and Dad today. Mom was really not good, but after I fed her and wiped her eyes, she seemed to do better. I did go OMG! once! I was feeding her and she burped then said EXCUSE ME! Is that nuts or what!?! Dad was in the dining room, too, talking! Some sensible, some not. He wanted to go to the lobby, so Bruce took him around to the waiting room. When Mom and I got there, Bruce and Dad were sitting on one of the love seats talking. It was good. This other guy named 'James' who is 90 came up and started talking to them. Bruce wound up giving Dad and him both $1 because they were talking about being broke. Anyway, when we left, Dad goes: Thanks for the $1 Bruce! It was good! Anyway, I wasn't trying to talk like Mom and Dad were already gone. I'm trying to find the positive in this situation. They are fed, clean, and in a safe heated environment. How awesome is that for anyone!?! It is sad that life changes, but it changes for ALL of us everyday! Luckily we DON'T know what's around that corner. It's scary enough when we run into it without having to know it's coming at us! Ok, I'm off to clean on my house. Bruce and I just voted and tried to clean house there! LOL! We'll see how that goes, too! Love you all, Jeanie