Jerry and I went to see Mom and Dad today around lunch. They were still waiting on their food and it was 12:30! That's crazy! Anyway, Dad seemed pretty good and talked quite a bit. Mother is just pitiful and that's about all you can say. She never knew I was there . I fed her lunch to her and she'd open her eyes a little every now and then, but that's it. She is so "not good"! Her eyes were very watery and she looks as pititful as she acts. Jeanie and I talked today about how mortified she would be if she could see herself and that makes it even harder to deal with. I talked to Debbie about the Seroquel (sp?) and she said they did cut the morning dose in half, but that she was still very sleepy. Sorry, I haven't written in a while, but life takes some turns sometimes that just keeps you otherwise occupied. Hope to see lots of you Thanksgiving! love, pat