Patsy, you are so right! Mom is so sad and would HATE how she is now! Her pride and her opinion of how she should live and all would be mortified to see herself right now. Some days it's just so much harder to see them now than others. I was telling Pat, my emotions seem to be so raw these days and things get to me easier. Bless their hearts and all of ours as we head into this holiday season. It's the first time Mom and Dad won't be at my house for Thanksgiving in so many years I can't even remember when it started. I've thought and thought about that and would love to have them---just can't figure out a way. Dad---we could handle. Mom---I'm doubtful. Plus how do I take them back? That's the part that would be so hard. I don't know, it's just hard! Love you all, Jeanie