Pam, they have cut Mom's med in half in the morning--she gets 1/2 dose in the morning and one dose at night. Supposedly, it's very little. That is so strange that she had that reaction today. That's more response than I've seen in a while. Hopefully cutting it is helping some! Usually she's not into what's being said. I am so sorry that this is the way it is. I know what you mean about the 'can't do a thing about it'! I feel the same way on some visits. I just don't know what the answer is. We'll see how it goes with the dose cut in half in the mornings. IF she's still more out of it than with it, we'll just ask that they cut it out in the morning period. I do think she gives them a hard time. I understand it on both ends---theirs and ours. I hate it for Dad more than for Mom. Dad does say some crazy things, but he's not out of it like Mom. I wish I knew a better answer. I just don't. UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love you all, Jeanie