My suggestion/solution about the dental stuff is that they haven't been there a year and if they have to be seen annually, they can come back in Feb 2011 and THEN see them. By then they will surely have Medicaid which will be responsible. NO WONDER the welfare and government is broke because of the crap rules and regs they have! Good luck getting in Mom's mouth! It seems it would certainly have been easier on everyone if we had just let nature take it's course with their money but we didn't. If we need the 60K, so be it! It's AFTER the 60K that I hope we're done! Ok Jamie, your SON started his senior year and my GRANDDAUGHTER started her freshman year of college! NO whining! You're preaching to the choir!lol Besides Jeanie is right--47 is young by my standards!! Maybe not Jason and Jerome's but do they count???LOL Love to all!Judy