I know what you mean Pat but can you imagine that the mother and dad of today were living at home by themselves less than a few months ago? I do NOT know how they did it then or else they've changed so rapidly since then. Mother isn't anywhere close to the mother she was even back in Feb! You could talk to her and she understood and responded at least 50% of the time then but not now. Doesn't seem to matter what you say to her, she doesn't respond either at all or it's just a response to a simple" do you want coffee". I hate it too but at least today Dad seemed to be at a ballgame! lol Have to laugh to keep from crying. Love to all, Judy