Sorry, but my visit on Sat was AWESOME!!! Dad was TERRIFIC!!!!!!!! He talked to Bruce and I about 45 minutes and for the most part was really with it. Unfortunately, today was not as good! He still looked good, but he was a little more confused and just not as 'with it' as on Sat. He still said several things that made really good sense---like the greens were too tough, and Mom was having a hard time, and she used to do everything for him and now he had to do it all. Those were all good. Mom---well, Mom was not good to me today---even more so than usual. I don't know what it was exactly, she just didn't seem as good. She tried really hard to say something---I'd love to know what she wanted to say. She didn't eat well at lunch (they said she had at breakfast though) and just in general looked really pitiful to me today. Today was one of those hard days when it all seems to really hit. I truly don't expect Mom to be with us for much longer. Margaret said she wants to sleep all the time now, too. I don't like that. I don't know---just several signs it seems. I did go by Chad's and sent off the papers DHS needed for Dad. Hopefully this will work for him. I did tell DHS that I was going to keep AARP for a couple of months to make sure the transition went smoothly---you never know about this mess. I asked Chad about the verdict on the appeal and said this was day 45---his response was that a judge can take as long as he likes---there's no day amount. This again is NOT what he told me that day! That day it was 30 to 45 days before we'd hear anything. This is just how the whole thing goes---yes, no, yes, no! WHATEVER!!!!!!!!! In the meantime, I called Humana to ask them to pay the pharmacy bill ( DHS called me back and told me that Humana would owe it----again, yes, no, yes, not!) Humana said NO! I called DHS back and she's just going to go on and send the paperwork for me to pay the bill with an offset in Sept---again, yes, no, yes, no! Good grief! Ok, I'm off to fix supper. I just came from the grocery and shopping there is NOT a good idea when you're HUNGRY!!!!!!!! Yikes! LOL! Love you all, Jeanie