Cute Pat!! Lol. yes we're old but strong!! Jeanie went today and took balloons and told Mom that we all loved her and hugged her. Absolutely kills me but she's better that we are in a way since she has no clue that she's not ok or see how much this hurts us all. That would just kill her!! Just sad is all I got!!! I cry really easily over all of this as I'm sure we all do. I do now KNOW that sending her back was right even though I hated it because she would want to be with Dad if she could make the decision for herself. We will get through this together. Love to all, Judy