Amen, Judy!  I've thought about Mother all day!  Wish she could enjoy her birthday.  I plan on going down tomorrow when I get off work to check on them .   Monday was really a hard day for me, but I am doing better.  The picture  Jamie sent was priceless.  Of course, I boo-hooed a ton after that.  I am also thankful that I have lots of sisters (even if they're all old).  hee hee!  pat