Pam, if there are no finger foods, ask. Her menu always says finger foods and ice cream. I asked the one day, and they brought her a turkey and cheese sandwich. She does make a terrible mess, but it's because she has no idea of where and what things are for or what to do! Hey, she IS eating though because she's not that tiny anymore! LOL! Good job on the going and posting. It makes me feel better being able to get on here and read about them! Judy, be careful on your trip home tonight! Love you all, Jeanie