Thank you all so much for responding to m's bill so fast! It's like a huge weight being lifted off my shoulders! I'm so proud of you all! That's too funny about the hats pat! Lol! I did go see m and dad today. Mom is mom--not much change. Dad was looking for Jamie and Judy today. I finally called jamie so dad could tall to her . He was tired and had been up all morning. At one point I thought he was fixing to cry--his eyes and face just looked like it. Anyway it wasn't an awful visit . Love you all, jeanie