I'm not Jamie by any stretch of the imagination (Good for YOU Jamie!LOL) but she and I did talk on the phone about the SgtMajor and he evidently was about Jerry's age and was given a DUI which is an automatic discharge. He had a really hard time with it and went out to a deserted beach area and they found him dead a couple of days after searching everywhere for him. They called it a strangulation by position or something like that because he fell asleep and the position of his head cut his airsupply off? Do NOT quote me on any of this but at least you'll know a little more than you did! It was so hard on Jerry when he guy had to get out of the service and then this. I think it all happened just about exactly at the time Jamie got home. Jeanie as for you and them not caring whether you're going or coming at the nursing home only goes to the fact that they are neither in their right mind because Dad for SURE knew how important you were/are/have been to them. He told me repeatedly that they couldn't make it without you and that is SO true! Congrats again on Baby Macie. Good and happy events are great! Love to all, Judy