I too have a HARD time believing that being upset is how Mom is most of the time. I'm not buying it! There are too many visits by all of us and it hasn't been like that but a couple of times. I wonder why the nursing staff that we really like down there hasn't said anything to us if that were the case. I hate that she was like that on the last time Jamie got to see them this visit too. I know it couldn't have been easy for Jamie. The thing about them is that they're never the same 2 days in a row! Today they might be back to their normal. I'll call in a bit and ask and post. It WAS great to be a large group of sisters for a couple of days and we absolutely need to do it a lot more than we have! Love to all, Judy