Good job, Pat and Pam! It all sounds pretty normal for them, really. Mom is just sad when you compare her to what she was----she can't help it and neither can anyone else. You just have to accept her for what she is today. She would be devastated if she knew how she was---that's part of the good news---because she doesn't. I know what you mean about her eyes. It almost looks like she has cataracts (sp?), but I know she's had them removed once. Can they come back? No idea. The funny part is she can see! If you put something up in front of her, she'll grab it/at it! Debbie told me that that's part of the AD. Eating is what she does best---including your hand if you're not careful. Dad still loves her. Did she call Dad's name or anything while either of you were there? Did she address him at all? It's just a horrible way to end your life, but is there really a good way!?! I can't think of any other than just going to sleep and not waking up. Anyway, good job on the visits. As long as someone is there basically every other day---that's great. I don't like the 4 day periods with noone there to just check in on them. Love you all, Jeanie